When to Take Car Keys Away From Parents

There has been a nationwide debate about the safety of older drivers. This discussion often centers on the question “At what age should an older driver stop driving?” which often leads to questions about mandatory testing for older drivers. At Cloverleaf Insurance 18005305822, we believe the real question that needs to be answered is: “How can older adults continue to drive safely for as long as possible?”

During family holiday gatherings the subject of an older relative’s driving safety occasionally pops up and the role of family.

The Role of Families

Families can play a very important role in supporting an older relative to drive safely, since they are more familiar with each other’s health, driving habits and skills. They may notice changes in driving behavior long before a stranger or even a helpful professional would be able to do so. For many older adults, conversations about driving take place between spouses or adult children. However, not all of these family conversations are well-informed or productive. For family members to be supportive when it comes to driving safety, they need to be knowledgeable and sensitive to engage in a successful conversation.

If you have a client who is concerned about the driving safety of an older relative, you can suggest the following steps:

1. Find out if the driver is really unsafe. It is best for family members to observe their loved one’s driving directly over time. Families need to note dates and incidences of good and bad driving practices. This information can be shared with the driver, family and healthcare professionals to facilitate discussion and make decisions about driving.
2. Second, if it is determined that an older relative is unsafe on the road, it’s time to have a family conversation about it. We suggest that families pick the right messenger, talk in private, and be supportive.

It’s not always easy for family members to broach this uncomfortable topic. Getting off to a good start can make the difference between success and failure. Although challenging, these conversations can work.

The Hartford Insurance Company developed a consumer guidebook We Need to Talk that offers families a multi-step approach to planning candid, effective discussions about older driver safety, from positive conversation starters to advice on which family member should broach the topic We Need to Talk also features strategies for alternative transportation and recommendations on what to do if a highrisk driver refuses to stop driving.